In competition, have you ever felt overwhelmed by stress, with too many thoughts running in loops?
This is exactly what Léana, a high-level player, is living. And if you recognize yourself in this situation… it’s normal. We all go through it.
Good news: it’s not a problem… it’s a lever you need to learn to master.
1. Stress: Enemy or Ally?
Stress is your body’s natural reaction to an important situation (like a match).
It acts on several levels:
- Emotional: fear, pressure, excitement
- Physical: racing heart, tension, shallow breathing
- Mental: intrusive thoughts, doubts
- Behavioral: tenseness, avoidance, or freezing up
Managed well, it boosts you (this is called positive stress).
Managed poorly, it blocks you (and directly impacts your performance).
2. Why do you stress so much during matches?
It’s not the match itself that creates your stress… but the way you perceive it.
Two players can experience the same situation:
- One sees a threat → stress, mental block
- The other sees a challenge → energy, commitment
It all comes down to your interpretation.
Do you believe you are up to the task?
Do you see an opportunity or a danger?
This is where intrusive thoughts are born.
3. 2 Simple techniques to regain control
1. Abdominal breathing (the foundation)
Simple, fast, and ultra-effective for calming your nervous system.
- Inhale slowly through your nose (belly expands)
- Exhale slowly through your mouth (belly relaxes)
Recommended rhythm:
- 5 seconds inhale / 5 seconds exhale
- or 4 seconds inhale / 8 seconds exhale (even more relaxing)
Use this between points, before a match, or as soon as you feel the pressure rising.
2. Full breathing (the next level)
To go further and center yourself deeply:
- Inhale: belly → chest → shoulders
- Exhale: shoulders → chest → belly
Example rhythm:
- 4 seconds inhale / 2 seconds pause / 8 seconds exhale
Ideal before a match to get into your “bubble.”
4. What will change everything for you
The goal isn’t to eliminate stress.
The goal is to use it.
When you understand how you function:
- you regain control of your mind
- you transform pressure into energy
- you finally play at your true level during matches
Conclusion
Like Léana, you don’t have a skill problem… you have an internal management problem.
And that is something you can train.
Start simple: practice these breathing exercises for a few minutes a day for 2 weeks.
You’ll already see a real difference on the court.
“You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him find it within himself.” – Galilée
Want to go further and truly unlock your mental game during matches? I’ll work with you directly on the court to transform both your play and your mindset.

